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CAREFULLY CARELESS
Living and traveling with peace in organized chaos
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Katie Smith
Dec 16, 20233 min read
No room left
When my kids do not want to hear what I have to say because it goes against their plans, they cover their ears with cupped hands and hope...
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Katie Smith
Nov 28, 20233 min read
We are getting off...
Stepping off the hamster wheel A friend just told us, "I get up, take the kids to school, workout, work, come home, eat dinner, play with...
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Katie Smith
Nov 14, 20233 min read
Not Depressed, but Discontent.
We can have all that we need physically, know our purpose spiritually, and be healthy mentally, yet still wrestle with discontentment....
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Katie Smith
Oct 27, 20233 min read
Sick of my story--rewind & repeat.
Have you ever woken up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night and then you can't fall back asleep because you're replaying...
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Katie Smith
Oct 12, 20234 min read
Mob mentality
I remember it like yesterday-- the lights, the smells, the screams. My fond interest in the boyband quickly became a love affair after...
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Katie Smith
Sep 25, 20234 min read
Free time--swapping out prison clothes
For the first time ever, I have all my kids in a regular five hour class--- wait for it---just once a week. While that seems like barely...
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Katie Smith
Sep 5, 20233 min read
Scared
My kids were recently discussing what they were scared of after one of them was screaming at the sight of a talking mannequin, albeit a...
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Katie Smith
Aug 17, 20232 min read
making decisions
Fluidity and flexibility are necessary in managing expectations, I know that full-well! But when it comes to solid decisions, fluidity...
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Katie Smith
Jul 31, 20232 min read
Stuck
Ever been stuck between a rock and a hard place? Ever banged your head against the wall over and over not knowing why? Ever hit a dead...
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Katie Smith
Jul 11, 20233 min read
America the Teenager
Whether you were a rebel or a saint in your adolescent years, a seed of rebellion exists in every single soul. By definition to rebel...
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Katie Smith
Jun 19, 20234 min read
Team Captains: a tribute to good dads
Some people just like to compete to make things "more interesting." My oldest son creates competitions out of everything, and of course,...
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Katie Smith
May 30, 20233 min read
Vantage Point
You know those pictures that you could stare at for hours and not realize their was another hidden picture inside of it? You know those...
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Katie Smith
May 13, 20233 min read
Intimacy
Most people aren't comfortable talking about intimacy, which makes perfect sense because the word is characterized by an atmosphere...
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Katie Smith
Apr 24, 20233 min read
Transition time
I had braces on my teeth starting in 7th grade like most kids in the 90s, and I didn't get them off until I begged the orthodontist my...
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Katie Smith
Apr 11, 20232 min read
His Thumbprint Hurts
You are being held down by a force so much greater than yourself. You wiggle, you squirm, you frantically use up every ounce of energy...
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Katie Smith
Mar 24, 20233 min read
Truth or Love
I recently saw the movie, Jesus Revolution and walked away pleasantly surprised. Most films with the name Jesus in the title are either...
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Katie Smith
Mar 6, 20233 min read
Robbed
Have you ever stumbled upon a person who you think you know, or someone said you should know, or maybe you once knew? In order to solve...
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Katie Smith
Feb 13, 20233 min read
Keeping fruit fresh
There's nothing more convenient then picking up your food already packaged and purchased either from the comfort of your vehicle or...
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Katie Smith
Jan 18, 20233 min read
Are you a Maintainer or Mountaineer?
Are you a maintenance personnel or a mountain climber? I'm a maintainer married to a mountaineer. It's kind of a tongue twister, but the...
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Katie Smith
Dec 22, 20223 min read
Sleep in Heavenly Peace
When my kids are asleep... This is when many parents say their favorite time of day is. While seemingly sad or pitiful, I understand the ...
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